I’ll never forget my first paycheck. When I was a kid, my parents gave me an allowance for doing chores around the house, although I think I spend more time trying to figure out how to get out of doing them. I earned additional cash here and there mowing lawns, babysitting, and I even had a paper route for all of a few weeks. But, I’d always been paid in cash or the occasional personal check. My first real paycheck was something different. All of a sudden, I was a wage earner and a tax payer and it made me proud. Made me feel grown up.

Of course, that first paycheck and the ones I collected for the next few years were meager and were usually spent in an afternoon at the mall and an evening of pizza and beer with friends. The days leading up to my next paycheck were usually pretty sad. I lived a duel life. I was rich, then poor. Rich again, and then poor…you get the picture.

Much to my surprise, when I finished school I was employable and joined the White Collar workforce. Now my paychecks feature a couple more digits and a comma separating them! What a time to be alive! The extra cash lifted me out of the boom and bust cycle I’d been in since that first paycheck. All of a sudden I had more money than I knew what to with. So, I did what any good American does. I went out shopping!

First, I upgraded my car and then I moved into a new, bigger apartment with a friend. Next, I furnished that apartment; flat screen TV with surround sound, sofa, chairs, tables and random things too numerous to list. My place is great and I my ride is ‘Pimped’, but guess what? I’m now back to that boom and bust cycle I thought I’d left behind forever.

Turns out, after I pay the bills my much bigger paycheck looks a lot like that first one. It feels like I’m now paying a lifestyle tax and that tax eats up a lot of my earnings. But hey, I’m college educated, I should be able to figure this out, right? Well actually, I have figured some of it out. Since I didn’t acquire and pay for my new lifestyle as part of some organized plan, when the major spending was over, the aftermath was just a bit shocking. But now I do need a plan. A plan for how to budget my money so I know how much I have left to spend after my bills are paid. And I need a plan to execute and track my progress.